Mistress Damiana Chi

My name is Damiana Chi. I have been a full-time Dominatrix in Los Angeles since 2000, and a lifestyle Domme for most of my adult life. Born and raised in L.A., I am an all-American girl, but my Chinese-Filipina ethnicity and fluency in Cantonese brings exoticness to my character.

I am proud of the reputation that I have built as one of the most well-respected, established, experienced and skilled Pro Dommes in L.A. What sets Me apart is my understanding of psychology, which is at the heart of BDSM play. I hold a Masters Degree in counseling psychology and a Ph.D. degree in clinical psychology.  I have a keen intuitive sense of what it is you crave about being before Me, and I make it a reality. Just as every individual is different and unique, BDSM scenes are individualized and unique with every person.  I can honestly say that I enjoy BDSM and the submissives whom I train more and more every year.


My play style ranges according to who I am playing with because the Domme plays off the sub's energy.  I can be compassionately instructional to mischievously playful to fearfully strict to wickedly sadistic. In my presence, you will experience the kind of Dominant Woman you thought existed only in your dreams: elegant, intelligent, creative, powerful and always in control. My natural dominance, stunning looks and artful skill will excite and intimidate you...but my intuitive nature will make you feel safe in your submission to Me. Realizing your dark, secret, forbidden fantasies and controlling your very being is what I crave the most. As your trusted guide and devious tormentor, I will pry open and explore those deep, hidden, perverted parts of your psyche and imagination. I will use my Feminine powers against you and take absolute delight in forcing you to be my slave and plaything. I will bring you to a place where you have secretly longed to be, a place where deep in your heart you know you belong - completely surrendered, under My complete control.


I enjoy a wide range of BDSM activities. All of the following ranges from light to heavy play depending on your tolerance level and experience.  This is somewhat listed in order of what I enjoy the most, although I do enjoy them all, otherwise they wouldn't be on this list.

• bondage (heavy being My favorite, but light can be done): rope (body harness & table webbing), leather (cuffs, belts and straps), bodybag (leather, latex & spandex), plasticwrap mummification (around body or around hanging bondage table), duct tape, bandage tape

• sensory deprivation (hoods, gags, blindfolds, earplugs)

• nipple torture (fingers, nails, nipple clamps, clothespins)

• cbt (c&b bondage, flogging & cropping, clothespins, weights, electro-torture), ball-busting (kicking, trampling, squeezing, punching)

• corporal punishment & discipline (spanking, caning, paddling, cropping)
• whipping (single tail, legree, cat o' nine tail) & flogging (leather, suede, latex)
• electro-play (ErosTek, violet wand, tens unit, electro-chastity, electro c&b crusher)

• bi-play (a specialty)

• foot, stocking, high heel & boot worship

• smothering (over clothing--not lingerie)

• tease & denial, edging (using vibration and Venus 2000)

• full suspension (body sling, sit harness, leather bondage cage, metal ball cage), partial suspension with cuffs, spreader bar combined with cbt predicament bondage
• forced feminization, cross dressing, slut training, sissy & maid training

• medical fantasies & medical play (contact Me for details)
• imaginative psychodrama (creative role-play scenarios)

• sensation play (fingernails, feathers, pinwheel, vibration, hot wax & ice, various other devices)

• trampling (spike heels, blunt heels, boots, bare feet, stockinged feet)

• tickle torture (with bondage and/or suspension)
• humiliation & degradation (particulars adjusted to sub)​

• Cantonese (My main language is English but I can also dominate in Cantonese, which is a lot of fun for Me. It doesn't matter if you do not understand what I'm saying. I use it as another tool for intimidation.)


I enjoy doing doubles/triples/multiples with any of the Mistresses of the Chi Temple.  Most popularly requested are doubles with my sister, Jezebel Chi.  We have been known as the Chi Sisters for nearly 2 decades in the LA BDSM scene.  Also popular are cameos by my slave Roxy, Master George, and vanilla voyeurs.  



Personal website: DamianaChi.com
Twitter & Instagram: @DamianaChiPhD

Online Media: link

Dominatrix Workshop: link



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